Buy when the problem is standard
Payroll, basic CRM, commodity communications and many administrative needs are solved by mature platforms. Custom code adds ownership burden if it does not create differentiated value.
Build when the workflow is the advantage
If the company wins through a distinctive operating model, customer experience, algorithm, data product or integrated workflow, custom software can encode and scale that advantage.
Hybrid is often the real answer
Use established products for commodity capabilities and custom application layers for differentiated behavior. Integration quality becomes the architectural priority.
Compare total cost, not license vs. project price
Include implementation, configuration, integration, manual workarounds, vendor price growth, migration, support, internal staffing, downtime/risk and opportunity cost.
Consider control and exit options
Ask how data is exported, what happens if a vendor changes pricing/features, whether APIs expose required capabilities and how difficult it would be to replace the system later.
Run a reversible decision where possible
Pilot a vendor, prototype a custom workflow or build a thin integration layer before committing to a large migration. Evidence is better than architecture-by-opinion.